DTC & Valuable Lessons....

The Hardings have officially become DTC!! This in the international adoption world is a HUGE step in bringing home our baby! DTC means "Dossier To China." Our Dossier is a giant package of paperwork that we have completed. All the documents have been checked, and rechecked! Originals are enclosed, and ALL of it goes to China! There it will be translated, and the Chinese government will issue us an official approval on Asa. That means that they have accepted us as adoptive parents to Asa, and are officially giving us permission to take him home! It has taken roughly eight months to get all of the paperwork and United States approvals, and now it is all in the hands of the Chinese government. I never thought I would see this day EVER sometimes. Let me walk you down a little unknown road for some of you. Adoption is exhausting. Not so much physically exhausting, but completely mentally exhausting. It consumes your mind all.the.time. Every situation you experience, you relate it to your adoption. The what-if's consume your mental capacity at every turn. There comes a time when you are so vested into it, that it is impossible to turn away. I have hit that moment a few times during these eight months. One day in particular {Wednesday, 2 days ago} I was completely ready to just Q.U.I.T! This is just TOO MUCH for me to have inside of my head!! I snapped the head off of my husband for easily thirty minutes. I threw my temper tantrum, because I am a fallen woman, in a fallen world, and for ONCE I just wanted it to be as easy as everyone made it look! But, it's not folks. It's just not. Maybe if you are a second timer, third timer, you may just have the road paved, and it is smooth sailing for you. But, for this girl, the road is NOT paved. It is hard, dirty, and filled with rocks. Take a seat because I am about to throw down the real to you. I have a cynical heart. It is THE ONE thing, I struggle to lay down at the Cross, all the time. I ask for prayer for it, I also pray myself for it. But, it is filled with cynicism, distrust, and I struggle to fill it with Truth. A lot of it comes from my childhood and growing up, and a lot comes from just living in a sinful world. Integrity is NOT a word that is honored anymore in our time. Most people tell you what you want to hear, or they are too busy hiding behind facades. Nothing and nobody is just REAL anymore. That makes it hard for a girl with a cynical heart. So back to two days ago. I was suffering from a real cynic attack, regarding this whole adoption thing. I was jus tired of NOT KNOWING answers. I feel like sometimes giving a class on how to be black and white, and living out of the GREY! Yes or no. True or false. Those answers. But, unfortunately, if you want those kind of answers, adoption won't give them to you. For the rest of the day I dove head first into the quick sand of life, and honestly I just felt like sinking. I just allowed that heaviness to weigh on me, and I even asked God, why do you allow all of this?! Why! And, in the next hours He taught me that lesson. Sometimes, you just have to drop all of your junk down, and PRAISE HIM! Just praise Him for what He is, and WHO He is! Thankfully, it was easy to do that on Wednesday night, as it is choir rehearsal. I hate going into choir with issues, because I cannot stand fake worship. I just told myself, just worship Him tonight, Erin. Simply for what He has done, so far. Well, wouldn't you know, we were practicing some really, really, really good worship songs! So as bedtime came, I was able to repent of my heart issues for the day, and just say Thank You. Awake to Thursday! After the kids got off to school, I started reading in 1 Peter, and then in my daily reading Psalm 145 was what was prescribed reading for the day. I closed it, without reading it, deciding to come back to it later. Boy. I tell you. We serve a God who is all about the details people. Sometimes, He has a word for you, but it has a specific time. It's just for us, at exactly the right time. My day went along, and we got the news of DTC, yesterday. What wonderful, exciting, glorious news! But, I mean honestly, I knew it was coming. We knew our Dossier was headed to China, any day now. So was it like out of the blue shocking? No. But, I can't help but think the lesson God wanted to teach me, was. So as soon, as I got home I picked up Psalm 145, and read.
I will exalt You, my God and King, and PRAISE Your Name forever and ever. 
I will praise You every day; YES, I will praise You forever. 
GREAT is the LORD! He is MOST WORTHY of praise! NO ONE can measure His greatness. 
Let each generation tell it's children of Your mighty acts; let them proclaim Your power.
I will meditate on Your majestic, glorious, splendor and Your wonderful miracles.
Your AWE-INSPIRING deeds will be on every tongue; I will proclaim Your greatness.
Everyone will share the story of Your wonderful goodness; they will sing with joy about Your righteousness. 
The LORD is MERCIFUL and COMPASSIONATE, SLOW to get ANGRY and FILLED WITH UNFAILING LOVE. {this gets me every time}
The LORD is GOOD to EVERYONE. He SHOWERS compassion on ALL HIS CREATION.
All of Your works will THANK YOU, Lord, and Your FAITHFUL followers will praise You. 
They will speak of the glory of Your kingdom; they will give examples of Your power. 
They will tell about Your mighty deeds and about the majesty and glory of Your reign.
For Your kingdom is an everlasting kingdom. You rule throughout all generations.
The LORD ALWAYS KEEPS HIS PROMISES; HE IS GRACIOUS IN ALL HE DOES. {I mean somebody say AMEN!}
The LORD helps the fallen, {wait for it!!} AND LIFTS THOSE BENT BENEATH THEIR LOADS. {cue tears!!}
The eyes of all look to You in hope; You give them their food as they need it. 
When You open Your hand, You satisfy the hunger and thirst of every living thing.
The LORD is righteous in EVERYTHING He DOES; he is FILLED WITH KINDNESS.
The LORD is CLOSE TO ALL WHO CALL ON HIM, YES, TO ALL WHO CALL ON HIM IN TRUTH.
HE grants the desires of those who FEAR HIM; HE HEARS THEIR CRIES FOR HELP and RESCUES them.
The Lord protects ALL (all is ALL in the greek and hebrew) WHO LOVE HIM, but He destroys the wicked.
I WILL PRAISE THE LORD, and may everyone on earth BLESS HIS HOLY NAME FOREVER AND EVER.

That's how you fill a cynical heart full of Truth. Right there. And He is so gracious to KEEP providing the truth to me, over, and over, and over again. So much more comes through adoption than just getting sweet children. It comes with lessons from God, too. Big lessons. I may struggle with a cynical heart, but when I fall to the ground, shave my head, and "Praise the name of the Lord!" {Job 1:20-21 ref.} He will meet you right there in the ashes, and set you back on solid ground. I promise. And for the entire day before we got the news of DTC, I sang this song. About 17 times. Over and over. Excellent, Incredible, Omnipotent, Infallible!

Merry CHRISTmas, I800a APPROVAL!!!!!

This morning I awoke with the thoughts of my little Asa across the pond. I just wondered if he was warm, because it is not warm there. I wondered what he was doing, and if he had eaten a good supper. I wondered if anyone was giving him hugs and snuggles today. My dear sweet friend, just gave birth to a baby boy in the wee hours of the Christmas Eve morning. Although my heart leapt with happiness for her, I couldn't help but weep for my sweet son. I just cried, and in my spirit I heard this "Erin, I go before you." I immediately looked up where I had read that before in The Word, and it was Psalm 139: 1-18 (NLT)

" O Lord, You have examined my heart and know everything about me. You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my thoughts even when I'm far away. You see me when I travel and when I rest at home. You know EVERYTHING I do. You know what I am going to say before I say it, Lord. You GO BEFORE ME and follow me. You place Your hand of blessing on my head. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, to great for me to understand! I can never escape from Your Spirit! I can never get away from Your presence! If I go up to heaven, You are there; if I go down to the grave, You are there. If I ride the wings of the morning, if I dwell by the farthest oceans, EVEN THERE Your hand WILL GUIDE ME, and Your strength will support me. I could ask the darkness to hide me and the light around me to become night-
but even in darkness I cannot hide from You. To You the night shines as bright as day. Darkness and light are the same to You. You made ALL the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb. THANK YOU for making me SO WONDERFULLY COMPLEX! Your workmanship is marvelous-how well I know it. YOU WATCHED me as I was being formed in UTTER seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You SAW me before I was born. Every day of my life was RECORDED in Your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed. HOW PRECIOUS ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT ME O God. They cannot be numbered! I can't even count them, they outnumber the grains of sand! And when I wake up, You are still with me!" 

How I needed that, and so thankful that He speaks in His still small voice. Just one line of this gorgeous Pslam, and everything that was going on in my heart about my son, He comforts. He sees. He knew my sweet Chinese boy before anyone, and He watched him being knit together in his momma's womb. It gave me such great peace to know that HE is keeping Asa warm, and HE is keeping Asa fed, until WE can get to him. Such a comfort to this Mommy! I then began to perk up a bit, because I KNOW that next CHRISTmas, Asa will be here to celebrate the birthday of a KING! The very King that brought him to his forever family. And the story just keeps on getting better and better folks! A little while later I got a phone call from Todd, and he was plum giddy to announce to me that our I800a, also known as our immigration approval, was approved with NO problems, and our official letter was mailed out yesterday! 62 days we had been waiting for this, and we have crested a giant hill!! Planted the flag, and we are "thiiiiissssss cloooseeeee" to sending our Dossier to China! I mean THIS CLOSE!! Like January 15th close! We are waiting on paperwork authentication, and BOOM! It's DONE! Like stick a fork in it! This is a huge Merry Christmas for Todd and I!  We were able to celebrate tonight with a nice meal out at our favorite sushi place, and I couldn't help but think, this would be the last Christmas we would spend as our little family of 4.

I know that our sweet little man is being covered under The Almighty's Hand. About a week ago we received news that Asa was moved from his orphanage in Shijiazhuang, to a specialized Cerebral Palsy rehabilitation hospital in the Henan province. This is a HUGE blessing, as that hospital can only house 100 orphans at a given time, and MY ASA is there! Getting therapy for his CP. This kind of care for orphans is just not the norm, and I know that God is showing Todd and I how BIG HE IS!! Just preparing every, single, step of the way. " Erin, I GO before you!" It is just forever etched on my heart, those words. And, the thankfulness I feel is just indescribable. So much so, that I cannot wait to tell Asa next year, " For a child is born to us, a son is given to us. The government will rest on His shoulders. And He shall be called: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace."

Adoption. The Hard Part.

I think that there always comes a moment when you have to really sit back and ask yourself, is this really worth it? Is it really worth all this pain? Then I look back to many a marathons, half marathons, 10K's, triathlons, I have trained and raced. The one thing that I always said to myself when I reached the point of being ready to quit, "if this was easy, everyone would be doing it." And, that is how I feel right now. I then look back at all the Lord has brought me through, and all of the endurance training He has been putting me through. It's for moments such as this. That moment when you get the phone call from your Social Worker, not for the promising referral of a little girl (which we thought it was), but to tell you that your agency has made THE decision to not let you bring home two children at once. And, that decision is final. For months and months, we have been preparing to bring home a little boy & a little girl, but for this time we will only be bringing home Asa. I would like to say however, this has nothing to do with myself or Todd. This was an across the board decision made for the entire China program of our agency. So I am sure there are others who will be receiving the same news. Gosh. It hurts. It hurts a lot. We have spent so much time, preparing for two. Praying for two. I mean we went into this with a word from the Lord about adopting two children. I mean we asked all the right questions, we followed EVERYONE'S rules. This just is just not the time. It is not God's perfect timing. Telling the kids tonight was very hard, but it also showed me just HOW FAITHFUL the God I serve and know is. After my sweet Taryn's sobfest in the backseat of the car. She was able to recall scripture, and the story of Job. She was able to see that Job, our perfect example of how to conduct ourselves in trials, was relevant to this very situation. She was able to see Him. We were able to talk about how no matter what goes on down here on earth, HE. is.still. God. HE is still on the THRONE! I could almost hear myself, the words of The Lord in Job, "where were you when I created the Heavens and the Earth?"  And in Isaiah, "for my thoughts are NOT your thoughts, and My WAYS are not your ways." It is so very humbling. It is so easy for me to almost crumble in a heap of my own sorrows. Sort of like Job too. Just sitting in the dirt, scraping off his skin with broken clay pots. Beaten down, tired of playing the game. Just wanting to find out WHY the Lord is allowing all of this to happen to us. Then I read this and it changes everything. 

Psalm 91:4b (NLT) " His FAITHFUL PROMISES are YOUR armor and protection." 

Hang it up. That's all I needed to hear. Because I KNOW my GOD is not a liar, and I won't be the first one He lies to! I have promise on top of promise. We will keep on praying, and seeking on how to bring home our little girl, who is somewhere out there. We don't know where or when we will meet her, but as of now we will celebrate our son who is waiting for us to come get him. We know that God's sovereign hand is upon our whole journey. Asa coming to us is nothing short of completely His plan, and we are thankful and so grateful. Please continue to pray for our family as we endure the hard parts of this journey called adoption.

The Orphan Company.

Let me start off by giving you a little bit of a background on this amazing God thing. A few months ago, one of my dearest friends came to me, telling me of this brilliant idea that her daughter Madeline had. God had laid upon her daughter's heart an idea to raise money for the orphan by selling handmade bracelets, and brownies, and donating the proceeds to to the cause of the orphan. What a great idea, right?! Let me mention to you that Madeline is 10 years old, AND she herself was an orphan. Her goal was to raise one hundred dollars, and donate it to her sweet cause. Because her mother Diane, is one of my closest friends, I knew that she would support her sweet daughter in anyway she could. For the next three months, they made these...

And began taking personal orders for custom colors, and thus began "The Orphan Company." Oh how my heart leapt for this sweet little girl's heart, filled with ZEAL for the orphan and the call of the Gospel! About two weeks into the birth of The Orphan Company, I was approached by Madeline at church, and she ever so boldly announced to me, "Ms.Erin! I have decided that the money I earn from the sales of my bracelets and brownies, I want to donate to your family to help bring home Asa & Ember."  I completely lost it. Because at that moment in time, I felt like saying "are you sure?!" "surely there is a more worthy family?" Until, God said, "DON'T YOU DARE, ERIN! You would be stealing away HER blessing, and YOU will miss YOUR chance to SEE ME move in the land of the living!" So I humbly accepted her sweet offer, and watched her skip away with her gallon sized, Ziploc bag, filled with handmade bracelets, a smile from ear to ear, and her sweet goal of raising 100 dollars for MY babies. 

Today, we met for lunch to celebrate Madeline's 10 year Gotcha Day, and on HER Gotcha Day, The CEO of The Orphan Company, presented (by way of tricky-ness) to The Harding Family, this....

Inside of the Chinese take-out box, was nearly $400!!! FOUR HUNDRED DOLLARS!!! Did you hear me?! Okay, and get this...The Orphan Company donated the same amount to another family who is leaving in two weeks for China!!! What started out as asking God to raise 100 dollars for one family, turned into blessing TWO families with close to 400! That is GOD's economy! And, I got to witness exactly what the scripture says in Ephesians 3:20 {NLT} " Now ALL GLORY to God, WHO IS ABLE, through HIS mighty power at WORK within us, to ACCOMPLISH INFINITELY more than we might ASK or THINK." I was just awestruck. This was all birthed within the heart of a 10 year old orphan who has been REDEEMED through adoption. This is what it is all about folks. AND, our Lord, knew all of this from the beginning of time. He orchestrated our blessing, and HER blessing. We have been grafted into a family that only God's hands could create, and I get to SEE it! Psalm 27:13 {NLT} " Yet, I am confident I WILL SEE the LORD's GOODNESS while I am HERE in the land of the living." It NEVER comes back empty. His WORD always holds true. Always. I am learning and learning that if you CLING to the promises of The Lord, you WILL witness them. When I first read Psalm 68:6, and it says that GOD places the lonely in FAMILIES, I myself CLUNG to that promise for myself, even before He called us to adopt. And, let me testify to it. HE has placed US in a Family. A most special family. It is one filled with believers, who will be our family here on earth, and when we go home to be with our Lord and Savior. God places His children in ETERNAL families. He has woven our lives with people who are so dear to me, that I wish I could boast about choosing! But, if I could, HE would not get the Glory! I could have never chosen THIS PLACE, THIS CHURCH, THESE PEOPLE! Never. Ever! But, this girl's heart is overflowing with humility and thankfulness tonight for one sweet girl and her obedience to a call. Thank You Orphan Company. You and your family mean more to us than you will EVER know in this lifetime. You are the example of what it means in Matthew 6:20-21. Storing up for yourself treasure IN HEAVEN.

An Aching Mommy Heart...

A few days ago, I was so blessed to receive a few photos from another waiting adoptive Mommy. Her daughter is in the same orphanage as my sweet boy. Her daughter had a birthday, and she like so many other waiting Mommy's are allowed to send a birthday care package through our agency. This is a tremendous blessing I am sure to all involved. Todd and I have already begun thinking of what kind of care package we could send Asa! Well, the orphanage celebrated her birthday, and also was so kind to send back photos of this little girl's party to her waiting Mommy. As God would have planned it, we just so happen to belong to an online group for children being adopted out of Shijiazhuang City, China. She is also a member of this online group, so she proudly posts her baby's birthday photos! But, wait...what are those familiar pink flowered sandals I see?!?!? Could that be my baby boy at a birthday party?!?! YES! About 5 photos of him celebrating a sweet orphanage friend's birthday. Oh how my heart ached and leapt when I saw the pictures! I did not even know how to handle the flood of emotion. He was so healthy looking. So ornery looking!! My Asa. MY ASA!! My baby who feels a million miles away, at a birthday party. I am not even going to pretend I know what is going on inside of me, but it is just incredible. When people would tell me how they just missed their unknown child, or how they would cry at the drop of a hat, I just didn't get it. I can say now, I SO GET IT. I start to cry for no reason when I think about him. I get a deep, empty, pit feeling in my stomach. I just want to occupy my mind with anything but thoughts of him, because I miss him so much. I want to hold him in my arms, and smooch him, and smell him, and never put him down. As tears just flow down my face, I feel my heart breaking, for someone I have never met. It can only be The Lord. What work are you doing in me Lord? What have you started in this Mommy? I panic when I see the amount of money it will cost to bring you to me, but have peace that transcends all understanding, because you were given to me, by someone that holds ALL the power. The love I have for you was birthed in my heart by The One who lives there. I just knew I had to write this down for you Asa, how you haven't yet seen my face, but I love you so much. I understand now. I understand that "WE LOVE because HE FIRST LOVED US!" How this verse comes alive to me, and I hope to you someday. I pray that you are warm, and that you are safe, but I already KNOW you are LOVED. Oh, what plans The Lord has for you sweet boy! I am already in love with your sweet caramel colored skin, your deep brown eyes, and ebony hair. I am in love with your ornery personality, and melt your heart smile. When I see you, I see how our Faithful Lord, hand picked you for this family, and the exhausting journey it has been to just get to THIS very moment. But, I know that it will be all worth it. All of it. Every copper penny spent, every tear shed, and every moment I crumble until you are home. Tonight, I am clinging to Psalm 103:17 "But the LOYAL love of YAHWEH is from everlasting to everlasting ON THOSE WHO FEAR HIM, and HIS righteousness to their children's children." It is humbling me more and more each day, as I watch the pages of a love story being written. Bless the LORD, O' my Soul. 

First Homestudy Visit Complete & A Big FOUR O Surprise!

I have been trying to put into action my good intentions. For awhile now, I have sloughed off on the blogging because we have had a plethora of things we have had to deal with since we moved into our house. But, because I truly want to document this adoption process, AND because all of you that keep up with our family have asked me several times what is going on with our adoption. Todd and I had to make the tough decision to move agencies. Not that we disliked the agency we originally signed with, it was based on some very key things. The first being that they did not have a license to serve families in the state of Georgia. We were under the impression that they would be getting a license very soon, but it was taking a very long time. We honestly were getting tired of waiting. We have been trying to add to our family for over three years now, and we had prayed about adoption for a year. It was time. So Todd called and broke the news. Our social worker Emily had given us some information about another agency that DID have a license in Georgia, was very ethical, and was in the business of not just getting children adopted, but giving the Gospel. We filled out the paperwork, cut a check, and we were back in business! I wish I could convey to people how overwhelming this whole process is. The mounds of paperwork, the background checks, the running around, the correspondence. It is a lot. We had started much of our homestudy paperwork with our previous agency Small World. When we switched over to Lifeline (our new agency) we felt very defeated. We knew that we would have to start the process all over from the very beginning. I tell you what, I almost came close to throwing in the towel. Tapping out. Questioning our call to adoption. Exactly what the enemy wanted. So I pulled out my big girl panties, and we dove into the mountainous paperwork once again. If it wasn't for Todd's amazing paperwork organization, we might be 100 years old before we ever adopted if I was in charge of all that. Todd was able to sift through the paperwork, prioritize, and execute. We literally plowed through our first round. All of the credit for that round goes to my amazing husband. I am telling you, he amazes me. We were able to schedule our first homestudy visit this past Monday, and we will have four total visits. What I loved so much about our first visit was that Emily was able to breakdown a timeline for us. We know that there are a lot of unknowns ahead, but because China's adoption is very consistant compared to other countries, the agency sort of already knows what questions they will ask, and what they expect from prospective adopting parents. Todd and I love that part the most. When it comes to surprises, about things we invest time and lots of money in, we prefer that we just do what you ask, pay whatever you ask, and we are done. No surprises. Even though adoption comes with surprises (I will refer you back to said agency change) God comes back to us with His peace. He wants us to learn something in this process. He is REALLY working on me, folks. I mean R.E.A.L.L.Y. When I first started the process with our first agency, I was very unemotional, unmoved, just going through the motions type of thing. NOW, my heart is aching. My mind is racing. My eyes long to see a photo. My brain longs to know a face so I can give them a name. My arms ache to hold. We are moving closer friends. If we plow through paperwork, the rest of the homestudy visits, immigration, FBI fingerprints, we could be finished with our homestudy by the end of September. WE could possibly have our Dossier finished by Thanksgiving, and logged in by Christmas. Then after that, we wait for matching, and then after we are matched, we WAIT for China's approval. Which folks that is what takes a huge chunk of time. Once we are approved, then we FLY to get our children! So please pray. I am excited to share with you our journey. I want to really write this stuff down because, one day I want to show my babies what we were going through before they came to us. I am however very lackadaisical when it comes to writing things down! I will try to post a blog for every major milestone in the adoption, and also what God is teaching me!

I am including this next topic into the same post because, I was completely caught off guard, moved, uttered speechless, by some great people that I love! First off, let me explain to you, JUST HOW HARD it is to surprise me. Todd has been attempting this feat for 13 years. Mainly, for things like gifts. Not so much for events. Every year for my birthday, or Christmas, I just give Todd a list of things I would like to have, and he ALWAYS picks something from that list. So never really a surprise. If we are going somewhere, I usually have to know about it. Because I am the one who plans, and Todd is the one who executes the plans. I am not by any means saying I wish that it was different. I don't. I have grown to LOVE knowing things in advance, so I CAN plan for them. I am a planner. Well, my fortieth birthday is on July the 19th. I never have any type of hoopla for my birthday. Which never bothered me, because I am usually in different places for them all.  Todd usually takes me to a nice restaurant, we take the kids usually, and they give me a card and a gift, and we call it a night. This time I assumed that it was going to be the same. Todd called me from work like last Monday, and said to me he made reservations for Henry Campbell Steakhouse. Which here in Albany, is a very nice restaurant, and it is very expensive, so we only go for birthday's and anniversary's. So I was like "Sounds Great!" Fast forward to tonight. Todd made sure to tell me that I should dress up and be ready to go by 6:15. No problem. Got it down. We pack the car full of Todd, myself, the kids, and my Mom who is in town for a little visit. We head over to HC, which by the way is next door to a restaurant called Shogun. It's my favorite place to eat sushi. While we pull up into the parking lot, I see a good friend of mine walking into Shogun. I call her name, but she did not respond. I think "oh well, she didn't hear me, I will just text her." Todd is like "just poke your head in and say hello." I am like "it's okay!"" I can just text her." So Todd opens us the the door to Shogun, and I see another good friend of mine, Kendra. I was like HEY!!! I said "I just saw Cara walking in too!" "What are you doing here?" Kendra says she is on a date with her hubby, do I want to say hello to Zak? I was like sure I can do that!! Well, I get inside, and I see a huge table with about 17 of my closest friends, and in my heart I got all of a sudden sad. Because, I was like "WOW, all of my friends are eating out together tonight, and they didn't invite me!" Then, I said, (to myself) well "they must know I was going to HC for my birthday." Then the entire group yelled SURPRISE!!!! They were there for me! I lost it. Half shocked that someone pulled this off, and I.had.no.clue. and that I was so surrounded by such love, I was overwhelmed. Todd kissed me goodbye, grabbed the kiddos, and I sat down to an amazing night. I laughed so hard, and cried so much!! The cards, and gifts, and the web of deceit and secrecy!! It was so full awesome!! Ya'll!! I just have to speak about the cards! I received some of the most heartfelt cards from these beautiful women, that I wish I could take a snapshot of, and post them all here for you. Cards so full of love and writing that my heart could not take it. As tears stream down my face right now!!! I will cherish and keep them always. The gifts. Oh my gosh, I was just floored by how much love went into picking out each one. Things that I love the most, carefully handpicked. I was a mess. I still am a mess. When I went to bed last night, all I could muster to pray was "Thank You Lord. Thank You Father." Because I was so incredibly blown away, and so thankful at who the Lord has put into my life. He does redeem folks!! Last night was proof of how much. From a loner girl who grew up in utter dysfunction, chaos, and never knowing Christ, to turning 40 with the love of so many pouring out, and Christ at the center of it all! I will never, ever, forget that. Here are a few photos from the night!

But, As For Me And My House...

"If it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the LORD, then CHOOSE for yourselves today WHOM you will serve: whether the gods which your fathers served which were beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; but as for ME and MY HOUSE, WE WILL SERVE The LORD." Joshua 24:15 (NASB)

home (n). The place where one lives permanently.
How we have been blessed! God has given us a HOME! This is my very first one that has my very own name attached to it!!  The one and only thing I have ever wanted since I was a little kid. It is a bit overwhelming at the moment. We moved in almost three weeks ago, and are still no where near being settled in, which if you know me,  is about to drive this girl INSANE in the BRAIN! {insert Cypress Hill dance break} You all KNOW you sang that after I typed that line. Don't lie. I don't feel that we have had a chance to sit back, take a breath, but we will soon enough I am sure. I am so thankful for being able to have gone through this process, and I feel that I will be going through it again..ummmm..never. I think know I have figured out my problem. In my own little world, I can control how things are done on a day to day basis, and what I figured out during this process is that other people do NOT have the high standard I strive to attain to. I don't say I am finished with something, and it not be truly finished. Finished to where I have double and triple checked the quality of my work. This probably has been the hardest part of the whole process for us, AND it just confirms to me that when my trust is put in the Lord Jesus, He NEVER fails. During my many freak out moments building this house, Todd had to constantly remind us that when we drove past this...

God told me "that's yours." So I just clung to that, and every single time I worried something was not right, or I had made this decision and had not heard the Lord correctly, He showed up. Confirming His hand each and every time. It was through a lot of prayer  that I needed Him to confirm to me that this little town was for sure going to be IT for us. We stepped out in Faith, huge! Huge. We had no idea if and when Todd would be gainfully employed, but Todd had a promise from the Lord, and I begrudgingly  willingly pushed forward full steam ahead! Now Look!! He has kept every single promise to us! He provided everything. Everything. TO INCLUDE gainful employment!! Oh how our faith was strengthened yet again, and how completely unwilling I am to not be in His will. Being not in God's will freaks me out more than you know. I may have mini panic attacks during the sanctification process, but I KNOW He is faithful.  Out of the will of God spells complete DISASTER. Nope. Not willing to assemble that 6 million piece puzzle.

It seems like so long ago that we drove past our little shell of a house, and I am ready to see God move again. Our next adventure is bringing home our sweet babies. More mini panic attacks for sure! Our prayer many times is that we hope people will invest in us, and allow us to invest in people. Todd and I enjoy that so much. I mean how fun is life if you just hoard, and never share? It's not fun it's horrible. A lesson I am diligently trying to make our children see! It's still not coming to fruition, but I hope one day it will! So friends, come. Come enjoy fellowship, laughter, food, and family. We are just a small family of four, and we seek to add to it! However the Lord adds, we are all in! And if I am honest, I pray that people will start to see us more as family. "God places the lonely in families." Psalm 68:6 says. We know that even though our blood family is not part of our lives, God can give us a family. Here. Right here, in THIS place. The Holy Spirit and you friends are Welcome Here! And if The Holy Spirit doesn't entice you. Hey! We got a pool!!